go to link David Stanley talks about an inspiration from the past, as The Music Man Project prepares for a special Sunday Night at the London Palladium…
follow url It’s funny how life twists and turns.
click here I often found myself gazing at my only picture of my late Grandfather – with his blonde hair, smart dinner jacket, wing collar and bow tie. I never met him; he died when my Father was just 11 years old. I had been told Grandad was a Charge Nurse at Claybury Mental Hospital before, during and after the war. Although he would later qualify as a State Registered Nurse, he soon returned to his calling at Claybury, treating all types of mental disorders and breakdowns.
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see url My own work has taken me from a Shared Leisure Befriender supporting a client with Down’s syndrome to taking 150 musicians with learning disabilities to perform my own music in a unique ‘Sunday Night at the London Palladium’. But it wasn’t until I began writing the story of Southend Mencap’s late President Joe Dorado in “From the Asylum to the Palladium” that I found myself re-visiting the life of Charles Robert Stanley.
As I explored these mental institutions from the past, and traced the journey from medicalisation of the learning disabled to today’s care in the community, I was shown a second picture of my Grandfather: this time his dinner jacket is replaced with a long white coat and he is administering insulin down the throat of a sedated patient. The very message I was trying to convey was staring me in the face. So often these “asylums”, “mental” or later “psychiatric hospitals” treated learning disabilities, homosexuality, poor behaviour and even single motherhood as a sickness that required treatment. This could mean electric shock therapy, lobotomy or a concoction of experimental drugs. My Grandfather would have been very familiar with straitjackets and padded cells.
Life is never black and white. Life twists and turns. We are on a long journey towards understanding differences, towards respecting and caring for all people and towards nurturing and celebrating all our talents. I love music, the arts and creativity. I want to encourage other people to believe anything is possible if you have faith in your own ability to teach and motivate others, regardless of your or their obstacles.
I am deeply proud of my medical Grandfather and hope he is also proud of his musical Grandson.